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For the past two weeks, I've been experiencing problems that concern my personal relationship with a very special person in my life. It simply means that there is no such perfect love relationship. Challenges may come along the way as we continue to long for an ideal relationship. However, these challenges may craft a stronger relationship or it may be the end of everything.
I just realized that in the midst of puzzled days dealing with this problem, I didn't lose hope and it didn't make me into a bad person. I always put into my mind that I am mature enough to handle a problem like this. Yes, I solicited advices and opinions from my good friends and I always end up hearing, "It is only you who can solve it. After all, feelings is involved." Which is, definitely true.
I've searched in the net things on how to handle relationships and I would like to share this to all of you my dear readers.
"You can completely transform any relationship, no matter what it's like right now. Every single relationship you have is a reflection of how you feel inside about you. You are a magnet attracting to you all things, via the signal you are emitting through your thoughts and feelings. Every relationship you have and every interaction with every person is a reflection of your own thoughts and feelings in that very moment.
To transform every single relationship you have in your life:
Fall in love with YOU!
Make lists of hundreds and hundreds of wonderful things about you. Keep adding to it every day.
Know that you are perfect. Do not think any negative thoughts about you.
Know that you are worthy and deserving of anything and everything you could possibly want in your life.
Focus on the wonderful things in every person. Look for only those things.
Do not blame or criticize anybody, ever.
Set an intention that you are going to see the best in everything and everyone.
Make your happiness the number one thing in your life. Happiness is an inside job.
Free yourself of the responsibility of trying to make other people happy. Respect and love them enough to allow them to take care of their own happiness.
Get your attention off those things in others that don't make you feel good.
Appreciate and love yourself in every moment you can.
Do not expect others to behave in a way you want, so you will be happy. Release yourself forevermore and know that you alone control your happiness and it is a choice, no matter what anyone else is doing.
Love and respect yourself completely.
Know that you are perfect right now."
Nuggets of wisdom are powerful tools in dealing with problems. You can't have the solution in a snap of an eye; it takes time and bunch of understanding to patch things up. If you are an impetuous decision maker and understanding is not in your vocabulary, you just lose a person. Yes, you're the last person to decide when it comes to love matters but see to it you've done your very best so that in the end you won't regret. And you're proud to say, "I've done enough. Mahatag ko ano may ara ako, ang wala siempre, indi ko gid mahatag."